This Bible study is the main resource that I use for couples who need marriage help, and it goes well with the "Submission" Bible Study in exhorting and helping couples fight for Biblical families. [Premarital couples: See Official Premarital Bible Study (below) for powerful Truth in pursuing purity]. When you add the Divorce and Remarriage teaching to this, it becomes even more helpful in propelling you to fight for your first marriage because God Himself defends it, makes it permanent for life no matter what, and shows that remarriage is never an option apart from death.

Husbands and Wives

The Profound Mystery of Marriage

Eph_5:22-33 EMTV Wives, subject yourselves to your own husbands, as to the Lord, 23 because the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. 24 But just as the church is subject to Christ, so also the wives be to their own husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your own wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, 26 in order that He might sanctify her, cleansing her by the washing of water by the word, 27 that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and blameless. 28 So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he that loves his own wife loves himself. 29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as also the Lord does the church. 30 For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. 31 "For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh." 32 This is a great mystery, but I speak in reference to Christ and to the church. 33 Nevertheless you also individually, let each one love his own wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respect her husband.

Eph_6:1-4 EMTV Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 "Honor your father and mother," which is the first commandment with a promise: 3 "that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth." 4 And fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and admonition of the Lord… 12 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this age, against spiritual forces of evil in the heavenlies.

Col_3:16-21 WEB Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms, hymns, and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your heart to the Lord. 17 Whatever you do, in word or in deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father, through him. 18 Wives, be in subjection to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. 19 Husbands, love your wives, and don't be bitter against them. 20 Children, obey your parents in all things, for this pleases the Lord. 21 Fathers, don't provoke your children, so that they won't be discouraged.

Tit_2:4-5 EMTV so that they may urge the young women to be lovers of their husbands, lovers of their children, 5 temperate, pure, homemakers, good, submitting to their own husbands, lest the word of God be blasphemed.

Pastor

1Ti_3:4-5 EMTV one ruling his own house well, having his children in submission with all reverence; 5 (for if one does not know how to rule his own house, how will he take care of the church of God?);

Deacons

1Ti_3:11-12 EMTV Likewise their wives must be reverent, not slanderers, temperate, faithful in all things. 12 Let deacons be the husbands of one wife, ruling their children well, and their own houses.

The Courageous Wife, Suffering Under a Lost Husband

1Pe_3:1-7 EMTV Wives, likewise, subject yourselves to your own husbands, so that even if some are disobedient to the word, that by the conduct of their wives, without a word, they shall be gained for Christ, 2 when they observe your chaste conduct with fear. 3 Of whom let it not be the outward adorning of braiding of hair, and wearing of gold, or of putting on of fine clothes, 4 rather let it be the hidden person of the heart, with the incorruptible attitude of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is very precious before God. 5 For thus formerly, the holy women who hoped on God also adorned themselves, subjecting themselves to their own husbands, 6 as Sarah obeyed Abraham, calling him lord, of whom you became children, when you do good and are not afraid of any terror. 7 Husbands, likewise, live together according to knowledge as with a weaker vessel, with the wife, showing her honor as also a fellow heir of the grace of life, in order that your prayers may not be hindered.

Main Contents: Intro | Husbands and Wives | Children

5/13/17

1Sa_25: Nabal, Abigale, and David

King Artaxis, Esther, and Mordichi

Children

These are my shorthand, personal notes of Bible verses for Children

Children in General

Other dates; 4/10/17

Exo_20:12 WEB Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you.

Lev 19:3 WEB " 'Each one of you shall respect his mother and his father. You shall keep my Sabbaths. I am Yahweh your God.

Lev 19:3 LB Let everyone of you reverence his father and his mother; and you shall keep My Sabbaths: I am the Lord your God.

Lev 19:3 ἕκαστος πατέρα αὐτοῦ καὶ μητέρα αὐτοῦ φοβείσθω, καὶ τὰ σάββατά μου φυλάξεσθε· ἐγὼ κύριος ὁ θεὸς ὑμῶν.

Pro_15:5 MKJV A fool despises his father's instruction, but he who listens to correction is wise.

Pro_23:22 WEB Listen to your father who gave you life, And don't despise your mother when she is old.

Pro_30:17 WEB The eye that mocks at his father, And scorns obedience to his mother: The ravens of the valley shall pick it out, The young eagles shall eat it.

Pro_1:8 WEB My son, listen to your father's instruction, And don't forsake your mother's teaching:

Lots of Children Are a Blessing

Other dates; 3/10/17-3/13/17;

Psa_127:1-5, esp. Psa_127:3-5

Psa_128:1-4, esp. Psa_128:3-4;

Pro_17:6;

Gen_1:28 – Original multiplication blessing

Gen_15:4 – Abraham’s desperation for children

Gen_15:5 – Abraham: look at stars

Gen_24:60 – Rebekah: Mother of thousands

Gen_30:1-2 – Rachel: “give me children or I die!”

Gen_33:5 – Jacob's Divinely multiplied Kids

Gen_41:50-52, Gen_48:4 – Joseph's Kids

Gen_50:23 – Joseph's Great Grand kids

Deu_28:4, etc. – fruit of body blessed

Jos_24:3-4, etc. – your father Abraam... multiplied... seed

1Sa_1:1-18, 1Sa_1:19-20, 1Sa_1:27, etc. – Hannah: 1^st Son: Samuel

1Sa_2:20, 1Sa_2:21 – Hannah: 3 more sons & 2 daughters

1Ch_28:5 – God Gave David Many Sons

Isa_8:18 – Isiah's Prophetic Children Signs

Job_1:2, Job_42:12-16 – Job's Children

>> See: wk ethic multiplication

Children – From Reproach to Reward

Gen_30:22-23 – Rachel's reproach taken away

1Sa_1:5-6, etc. – Hannah (as seen previously)

Luk_1:24-25 – Elizabeth's reproach taken away

Also Consider The Blessing of Celibacy

Isa_54:1-4; Mat_19:10-12; 1Co_7:1; 1Co_7:6-9; 1Co_7:25-38;

>> Sync: Pur | FamCo

Labor & Delivery Verses – Verses for Women to be Saved Through Labor

My spiritual wife’s favorite verses for having faith and hope when seeking to be courageous in birthing children

My wife compiled the following verses (in conjunction of our proclamation) which I compiled, quoted, and enhanced for this Bible Study.

My wife said: “the following are 7 of my "favorite" Bible verses for labor (aside from my current Psalms of Degrees obsession).”

(My wife also asked,

AlThu 11:49am

Heb_11:11 – by faith Sarah was given power to throw down seed

Heb_11:11 GRV [Dative: to/for/in/at/with (by)] πιστει^G4102^N-DSF και^G2532^CONJ αυτη^G846^P-NSF σαρρα^G4564^N-NSF στειρα^G4723^N-NSF^α δυναμιν^G1411^N-ASF εις^G1519^PREP καταβολην^G2602^N-ASF σπερματος^G4690^N-GSN ελαβεν^G2983^V-2AAI-3S και^G2532^CONJ παρα^G3844^PREP καιρον^G2540^N-ASM ηλικιας^G2244^N-GSF [biggness/size/stature/adulthood/maturity -- ἡλικία (St G2244: maturity; WS: adulthood) < ἡλίκος (St G2245: as big as…how much; WS: How great (Col_2:1; Jas_3:5 {AMGL: Gal_6:11}); AMGL: what sized, what, how great, how small) < ἧλιξ (St: a comrade, that is, one of the same age; WS: adult); (Mat_6:34: αρκετον)] ετεκεν^G5088^V-2AAI-3S^τσβ επει^G1893^CONJ πιστον^G4103^A-ASM ηγησατο^G2233^V-ADI-3S τον^G3588^T-ASM επαγγειλαμενον^G1861^V-ADP-ASM

>> Sync: FamC | DAR

Mat_24:21-22 – Days cut short for elect’s sake else no one would be saved

Mat_24:21 GRV εσται^{G2071 V-FXI-3S} γαρ^{G1063 CONJ} τοτε^{G5119 ADV} θλιψις^{G2347 N-NSF} [comp. Joh_16:21] μεγαλη^{G3173 A-NSF} οια^{G3634 R-NSF} [St: “such or what sort of” AMGL: “what sort or manner of, such as” (as WS)] ου^{G3756 PRT-N} γεγονεν^{G1096 V-2RAI-3S} απ^{G575 PREP} αρχης^{G746 N-GSF} κοσμου^{G2889 N-GSM} εως^{G2193 CONJ} του^{G3588 T-GSM} νυν^{G3568 ADV} ουδ^{G3761 ADV} ου^{G3756 PRT-N} μη^{G3361 PRT-N} γενηται^{G1096 V-2ADS-3S}

Mat_24:22 GRV και^G2532^CONJ ει^G1487^COND μη^G3361^PRT-N εκολοβωθησαν^G2856^V-API-3P [pruned/checked/restrained; St: G2849: dwarf/curtail > G2856: (figuratively) abridge: - shorten (~ cut short)] αι^G3588^T-NPF ημεραι^G2250^N-NPF εκειναι^G1565^D-NPF ουκ^G3756^PRT-N αν^G302^PRT εσωθη^G4982^V-API-3S πασα^G3956^A-NSF σαρξ^G4561^N-NSF δια^G1223^PREP δε^G1161^CONJ τους^G3588^T-APM εκλεκτους^G1588^A-APM [ἐκ, ἐξ + λέγω] κολοβωθησονται^G2856^V-FPI-3P αι^G3588^T-NPF ημεραι^G2250^N-NPF εκειναι^G1565^D-NPF

[(A) AMGL G2849: prune. 2. to check, restrain. 3. to chastise, correct, punish; (B) WS: κολάζω kolázō; fut. kolásomai, from kólos (n.f.), abridged, shortened. To mutilate, prune, such as trees. Metaphorically, to correct, moderate. In the NT, and generally, to discipline, punish, with the acc. (Act_4:21; 2Pe_2:9, meaning to reserve as subject to punishment). Also from kólos (n.f.): kōlúō (G2967), to cut off, weaken, hinder.

(C) WS: maimed, cut off. To cut off, mutilate (Sept.: 2Sa_4:12). In the NT, used of time in the pass., meaning to cut off, shorten (Mat_24:22; Mar_13:20). -- (D) AMGL: to cut off, amputate (LXX), hence, to curtail, shorten (E) VGNT: properly = “amputate”…“maimed,” “mutilated,”]

Mat 22:13 Then the king said to the servants, 'Tie him up hands and feet, take him away, and cast him into outer darkness; there shall be weeping and gnashing of teeth.'

Mat 22:13 τότε εἶπεν ὁ βασιλεὺς τοῖς διακόνοις· δήσαντες αὐτοῦ πόδας καὶ χεῖρας ἄρατε αὐτὸν καὶ ἐκβάλετε εἰς τὸ σκότος τὸ ἐξώτερον· ἐκεῖ ἔσται ὁ κλαυθμὸς καὶ ὁ βρυγμὸς τῶν ὀδόντων.

Mat 22:13 τοτε TSBειπεν ο βασιλευς Aειπεν τοις διακονοις δησαντες αυτου ποδας και χειρας TSBαρατε TSBαυτον TSBκαι εκβαλετε Aαυτον εις το σκοτος το εξωτερον εκει εσται ο κλαυθμος και ο βρυγμος των οδοντων

Mat 22:14 "For many are called, but few are chosen."

Mat 22:14 πολλοὶ γάρ εἰσι κλητοὶ, ὀλίγοι δὲ ἐκλεκτοί.

Rth_4:11 – Blessing to Make You as Those Who Worked Mightiness in Ephrathah

Rth_4:11 WEB All the people who ·were [KJV: were] in the gate, and the elders, said, ·We are [KJV: We are] witnesses. Yahweh make the woman who has come into your house like Rachel and like Leah, which two built the house of Israel: and ·~~treat~~ you worthily [“חיל ועשׂה” – do (you?) mightiness]* in Ephrathah, and be famous in Bethlehem:

[* MT: “חיל” “ועשׂה” – KJV: do thou worthily; YLT: do thou virtuously; NKJV: may you prosper; DRB (VUL): that she may be an example of virtue; NIV (Not Inspired Version): May you have standing]

Rth_4:11 LB (LXX) And all the people who were in the gate said, ·“We are witnesses” [Μάρτυρες]; and the elders [πρεσβύτεροι] said, “The Lord ·make [Δῴη] your wife [τὴν γυναῖκά σου] who goes into your house, as Rachel and as Leah, who both together built the house of Israel, and wrought mightily in Ephratha [ἐποίησανV-AAI-3P δύναμινN-ASF – ABP: did powerfully in Ephratah; CT (LXX): and laid the foundation of power in Ephratha], and there shall be a name to you in Bethlehem.

Rth_4:11 καὶ εἴποσαν πᾶς ὁ λαὸς οἱ ἐν τῇ πύλῃ Μάρτυρες. καὶ οἱ πρεσβύτεροι εἴποσαν Δῴη κύριος τὴν γυναῖκά σου τὴν εἰσπορευομένην εἰς τὸν οἶκόν σου ὡς Ραχηλ καὶ ὡς Λειαν, αἳ ᾠκοδόμησαν ἀμφότεραι τὸν οἶκον Ισραηλ καὶ ἐποίησαν δύναμιν ἐν Εφραθα, καὶ ἔσται ὄνομα ἐν Βαιθλεεμ·

Rth 4:11 καιG2532 CONJ ειποσανV-AAI-3P παςG3956 A-NSM οG3588 T-NSM λαοςG2992 N-NSM οιG3588 T-NPM ενG1722 PREP τηG3588 T-DSF πυληG4439 N-DSF μαρτυρεςG3144 N-NPM καιG2532 CONJ οιG3588 T-NPM πρεσβυτεροιG4245 A-NPMC ειποσανV-AAI-3P δωηG1325 V-AAO-3S κυριοςG2962 N-NSM τηνG3588 T-ASF γυναικαG1135 N-ASF σουG4771 P-GSM τηνG3588 T-ASF εισπορευομενηνG1531 V-PMPAS ειςG1519 PREP τονG3588 T-ASM οικονG3624 N-ASM σουG4771 P-GSM ωςG3739 CONJ ραχηλN-PRI καιG2532 CONJ ωςG3739 CONJ λειανN-PRI αιG3739 R-NPF ωκοδομησανG3618 V-AAI-3P αμφοτεραιA-NPF τονG3588 T-ASM οικονG3624 N-ASM ισραηλG2474 N-PRI καιG2532 CONJ εποιησανG4160 V-AAI-3P δυναμινG1411 N-ASF ενG1722 PREP εφραθαN-PRI καιG2532 CONJ εσταιG1510 V-FMI-3S ονομαG3686 N-NSN ενG1722 PREP βαιθλεεμN-PRI

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Rth_4:11 ויאמרוH559 said, כלH3605 And all העםH5971 the people אשׁרH834 that בשׁערH8179 in the gate, והזקניםH2205 and the elders, עדיםH5707 witnesses. יתןH5414 make יהוהH3068 The LORD אתH853 האשׁהH802 the woman הבאהH935 that is come אלH413 into ביתךH1004 thine house כרחלH7354 like Rachel וכלאהH3812 and like Leah, אשׁרH834 which בנוH1129 did build שׁתיהםH8147 two אתH853 ביתH1004 the house ישׂראלH3478 of Israel: ועשׂהH6213 and do חילH2428 thou worthily באפרתהH672 in Ephratah, וקראH7121 and be famous שׁםH8034 and be famous בבית לחם׃H1035 in Bethlehem:

Rth_4:11 vayo`m'ru cal ´ ha,aM `a$er ´ ba$a,ar v'haz'kaniyM ,adiyM yiTaN y'hvah `eT ´ ha`i$ah haba`ah `el ´ bayTeCa c'raHal uk'la`ah `a$er banu $'TayheM `eT ´ bayT yiS'ra`al va,aSah ´ Hayil b'`ef'raTah uk'ra` ´ $aM b'VayT laHeM

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1Ti_2:15 – They will be Saved in Childbearing if they Continue in...

1Ti_2:15 GRV σωθησεται*^G4982^V-FPI-3S δε^G1161^CONJ δια^G1223^PREP της^G3588^T-GSF τεκνογονιας^G5042^N-GSF εαν^G1437^COND μεινωσιν^G3306^V-AAS-3P εν^G1722^PREP πιστει^G4102^N-DSF και^G2532^CONJ αγαπη^G26^N-DSF και^G2532^CONJ αγιασμω^G38^N-DSM μετα^G3326^PREP σωφροσυνης^G4997^N-GSF

[* Saved: from Gen_3:16: (A) λύπαςN-APF…(B) στεναγμόνN-ASM… {θλιψεως (Joh_16:21)} (A) λύπαιςN-DPF ]

1Ti_5:14 CAB Therefore I desire that the younger widows to marry, to bear children [τεκνογονεῖν], to manage the house, to give no opportunity to the adversary because of reproach.

1Ti_5:14 βούλομαι οὖν νεωτέρας γαμεῖν, τεκνογονεῖν, οἰκοδεσποτεῖν, μηδεμίαν ἀφορμὴν διδόναι τῷ ἀντικειμένῳ λοιδορίας χάριν.

Gen_3:16 WEB To the woman he said, "I will greatly multiply your pain in childbirth. In pain you will bring forth children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you."

Gen_3:16 CAB And to the woman He said, “I will greatly multiply [Πληθύνων πληθυνῶ] your pains [λύπας – AMGL: pain of body or mind, grief, sorrow ; LJS: sad plight or condition] and your groanings [στεναγμόν]; in pain [λύπαις] ·you shall bring forth children [τέξῃ τέκνα], and your submission shall be to your husband, and he shall rule over you.”

Gen_3:16 καὶ τῇ γυναικὶ εἶπεν Πληθύνων πληθυνῶ τὰς λύπαςN-APF σου καὶ τὸν στεναγμόνN-ASM σου, ἐν λύπαιςN-DPF τέξῃ ^{G5088 V-FMI-2S} τέκνα ^{G5043 N-APN}· καὶ πρὸς τὸν ἄνδρα σου ἡ ἀποστροφή σου, καὶ αὐτός σου κυριεύσει.

λυπαςG3077 N-APF σουG4771 P-GS καιG2532 CONJ τονG3588 T-ASM στεναγμονG4726 N-ASM σουG4771 P-GS ενG1722 PREP λυπαιςG3077 N-DPF

V: 3/29/19

Luk_8:50 – No fear, Only Believe. And Salvation will Happen

Luk_8:50 GRV ο^{G3588 T-NSM} δε^{G1161 CONJ} ιησους^{G2424 N-NSM} ακουσας^{G191 V-AAP-NSM} απεκριθη^{G611 V-ADI-3S} αυτω^{G846 P-DSM} λεγων^{G3004 V-PAP-NSM}^τσβ μη^{G3361 PRT-N} φοβου^{G5399 V-PNM-2S} μονον^{G3440 ADV} πιστευσον^{G4100 V-AAM-2S}^α πιστευε^{G4100 V-PAM-2S}^τσβ και^{G2532 CONJ} σωθησεται^{G4982 V-FPI-3S}

See: Mar_5:36

Jam_5:15 – Prayer Of Faith Will Raise Up The Exhausted One

Jas_5:15 GRV και^{G2532 CONJ} η^{G3588 T-NSF} ευχη^{G2171 N-NSF} της^{G3588 T-GSF} πιστεως^{G4102 N-GSF} σωσει^{G4982 V-FAI-3S} τον^{G3588 T-ASM} καμνοντα^{G2577 V-PAP-ASM} και^{G2532 CONJ} εγερει^{G1453 V-FAI-3S} αυτον^{G846 P-ASM} ο^{G3588 T-NSM} κυριος^{G2962 N-NSM} καν^{G2579 COND-C} αμαρτιας^{G266 N-APF} η^{G5600 V-PXS-3S} πεποιηκως^{G4160 V-RAP-NSM} αφεθησεται^{G863 V-FPI-3S} αυτω^{G846 P-DSM}

Joh_16:21 – Once a Child is Produced she Doesn't Remember her Sadness Anymore

Joh_16:21 η^{G3588 T-NSF} γυνη^{G1135 N-NSF} οταν^{G3752 CONJ} τικτη^{G5088 V-PAS-3S} λυπην^{G3077 N-ASF} εχει^{G2192 V-PAI-3S} οτι^{G3754 CONJ} ηλθεν^{G2064 V-2AAI-3S} η^{G3588 T-NSF} ωρα^{G5610 N-NSF} αυτης^{G846 P-GSF} οταν^{G3752 CONJ} δε^{G1161 CONJ} γεννηση^{G1080 V-AAS-3S} το^{G3588 T-ASN} παιδιον^{G3813 N-ASN} ουκετι^{G3765 ADV}^αβ ουκ^{G3756 PRT-N}^τσ ετι^{G2089 ADV}^τσ μνημονευει^{G3421 V-PAI-3S} της^{G3588 T-GSF} θλιψεως^{G2347 N-GSF} [Mat_24:21] δια^{G1223 PREP} την^{G3588 T-ASF} χαραν^{G5479 N-ASF} οτι^{G3754 CONJ} εγεννηθη^{G1080 V-API-3S} ανθρωπος^{G444 N-NSM} εις^{G1519 PREP} τον^{G3588 T-ASM} κοσμον^{G2889 N-ASM}

>>>>> [Mat_24:21]

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Punishment of Children

Other dates (seen previously); 3/14/17; 1/29/18

Pro_3:12 - Scourges every received son

Heb_12:6-12 - Quotes Pro_3:12 LXX (not the Heb. MT)

Pro_13:20 - Companion of fools

Pro_13:24 - No rod = hate son

Pro_19:18 (also: Pro_19:19) – Punish while hope (MT: 'no spare for crying')

Pro_20:11 - LXX: youth restrained (MT: 'children can know')

Pro_22:6 - Not in LXX (MT: ‘train up’)

Pro_22:15 - Folly bound up... rod

Pro_23:13-14 - He will not die

Pro_23:24, etc. - LXX: Righteous father brings up well; LXX & MT: father of wise = joy (Pro_27:11)

Pro_29:15 - LXX: Erring child (MT: Left to himself) = shame

Pro_29:17 - Correct son, he give you good

[Pro_29:19 – servant can’t be child-corrected with words…]

Eph_6:1-4 - Children obey... Father's... no provoking... but discipline

[Pro_20:30 - LXX: bad happens to bad (MT: blueness of wound)]

Deu_25:2 WEB and it shall be, if the wicked man be worthy to be beaten, that the judge shall cause him to lie down, and to be beaten before his face, according to his wickedness, by number.

Deu_25:2 LB then it shall come to pass, if the unrighteous should be worthy of stripes, you shall lay him down before the judges, and they shall scourge him before them according to his iniquity.

Deu_25:2 καὶ ἔσται ἐὰν ἄξιος ᾖ πληγῶν ὁ ἀσεβῶν, καὶ καθιεῖς αὐτὸν ἔναντι τῶν κριτῶν καὶ μαστιγώσουσιν αὐτὸν ἐναντίον αὐτῶν κατὰ τὴν ἀσέβειαν αὐτοῦ ἀριθμῷ.

Coming of Age – Bar Mitzvah

Many Other date(s) (seen below); 9/9/19 (Major Reformating/Revission); 10/20/19

Quick Summary of Growing Up

Bar Mitzvah

Bar Mitzvah is when a male child in Jewish culture comes of age. Although most observe this at 13 today, it seems to have been originally recognized at 12 years old–which is what Jesus, His parents, and monotheistic society observed and recognized in Luk_2:42. (Note the appropriate significance of 12 among Monotheists.)

No Bat Mitzvah, Only Transfer or Dismissal

It should be noted that women do not come of age. Women do not have a bar mitzvah, and it is only more recently in history that apostate liberals have invented a shameful bat mitzvah in their degradation of women. Any concept like this is liberal and unfounded in Biblical history. While boys become men, girls are transferred from their fathers to their husbands (See all of Num_30:1-16). Women only become independent when their men are out of the picture (example: death or abandonment).

Honoring Parents is Life-Long

It is also important to note that while boys “graduate” into becoming men, from being under authority to becoming authorities, no son or daughter ever graduates from honoring their parents (Eph_6:1-3; Col_3:20).

When you are a child, honoring parents especially includes obeying them, and when you are an adult it includes providing for them / giving them money/value -- as seen in Divorce and Remarriage Repentance Revolution).

>>Scrip /\/\

>> Prophetic Dishonor

Mat_10 -- Sword

>>TSK

Submit to Husband as unto Lord…

10/23/21

Requirements for Boys to Become Men

· Appointed time by father (or sometimes their current authority, if adopted for example?) -- Gal_4

· Not being under tutors or guardians (i.e. no need/dependence upon being under supervision) -- Gal_4
(comp. Jesus stayed in a city by Himself -- Luk_2)

· Autonomous Responsibility (which is prerequisite for Autonomous Authority) -- seen throughout numerous passages below

· Put away childish things -- 1Co_13

Gal_4:1-2 – the time appointed by the father

Happens to boys, including gentiles

[Also note that ‘a son is like a slave’ in Gal_4:1 and Sir_3:7 (where “Sir” = “Sirach”)]

(A) ἐπιτρόπους: Mat_20:3, Luk_8:3; LXX: 2Ma_11:1 (p. 515 NETS); 2Ma_13:2; 2Ma_14:2

(B) οἰκονόμους: Rom_2:12-16, Rom_2:25-29, etc.

>> Story: I have done adult spanking

1Co_13:11 – Grown Men: put away childish things

Notice that lots of kids want to be treated like adults but aren’t as zealous for the properly correlating responsibility of adulthood.

Child Play = Things of a Child

9/13/19; 10/20/19

Child Play is Biblical & Distinct

Zec_8:4 WEB Thus says Yahweh of Armies: "Old men and old women will again dwell in the streets of Jerusalem, every man with his staff in his hand for very age.

Zec_8:4 Thus says the Lord Almighty: ‘There shall yet dwell old men and old women in the streets of Jerusalem, everyone holding his staff in his hand for age.

Zec_8:4 τάδε λέγει κύριος παντοκράτωρ Ἔτι καθήσονται πρεσβύτεροι καὶ πρεσβύτεραι ἐν ταῖς πλατείαις Ιερουσαλημ, ἕκαστος τὴν ῥάβδον αὐτοῦ ἔχων ἐν τῇ χειρὶ αὐτοῦ ἀπὸ πλήθους ἡμερῶν·

Zec_8:5 WEB The streets of the city will be full of boys [יְלָדִ֖ים (y'ladiyM) ???] and girls [וִֽילָד֑וֹת (viyladOT) ???] playing [מְשַׂחֲקִ֖ים (m'SaHakiyM)] in its streets."

Zec_8:5 And the broad places of the city shall be filled with boys [παιδαρίων] and girls [κορασίων] playing [παιζόντων] in its streets.’

Zec_8:5 καὶ αἱ πλατεῖαι τῆς πόλεως πλησθήσονται παιδαρίων καὶ κορασίων παιζόντων ἐν ταῖς πλατείαις αὐτῆς.

Zec_8:6 WEB Thus says Yahweh of Armies: "If it is marvelous in the eyes of the remnant of this people in those days, should it also be marvelous in my eyes?" says Yahweh of Armies.

Zec_8:6 Thus says the Lord Almighty: ‘If it shall be impossible in the sight of the remnant of this people in those days, shall it also be impossible in My sight?’” Says the Lord Almighty.

Zec_8:6 τάδε λέγει κύριος παντοκράτωρ Διότι εἰ ἀδυνατήσει ἐνώπιον τῶν καταλοίπων τοῦ λαοῦ τούτου ἐν ταῖς ἡμέραις ἐκείναις, μὴ καὶ ἐνώπιον ἐμοῦ ἀδυνατήσει; λέγει κύριος παντοκράτωρ.

This blessing of (happy) “playing” children in the streets is idealized as a beautiful restoration of redeemed society in Jerusalem.

Notice that there is something distinct between child play and adult activity in society which is being idealized in this passage.

Adult Playing Examples

· “Playing” Instruments

· Worship/dancing like David (“ומשׂחק”/παίζοντα in 1Ch 15:29 -- same as Zec_8:5 Heb/Gr)

· This “playing” terminology works in Hebrew Greek and English.

· Marriage celebration like Isaac

Child Play vs Adult Play

· Healthy child play particularly means creatively practicing things that get you ready for being an adult.

· Healthy adult play means celebrating good things worthy of praise and happiness.

· Adults can also “creatively practice things” to gain new skills and such, but this is usually called gym-nize/exercise/train in the Bible.

· While adults are said to “play” in the Bible

· There is a required social transition if a Monotheist was to pass from being a Zec_8:5 child to a Zec_8:4 older man or woman.

· These comparisons are generalizations, but they still effectively help us consider the distinct social realities between children and grown-ups.

The Mockery of Childing a Man

· Law of Moses prescribes it as a shaming punishment for some guilty men (ex. Deu_22)

· If done to a holy man it deserves death: 2Ki_2:23, etc.

Autonomous Responsibility & Authority

For the concept (and language) of “Autonomy” See: Rom_2:

Num_30:2 – “Of Age” Means you're personally responsible for your own actions, especially in view of God's Law

(See all of Num_30:1-16)

1Co_11:3 – The head / authority of every (grown) man [ἀνδρὸς] is Anointed One (“Christ”) (while the head of woman is still man, even after she is “grown”)

Greek: ἀνδρὸς – this does not include boys [παῖδας], girls [παιδισκῶν], or even women [γυναῖκές], but every MAN [ἀνδρὸς].

Joh_9:20-21 – parents: He is of age... He will speak for himself

Jesus Observed Bar Mitzvah

The Jewish Coming of Age

Luk_2:40-52

· Luk_2:7 – Jesus Born

· Luk_2:22-24 – Jesus dedicated as a child

· Luk_2:42 – Twelve years old

· Luk_2:46-47 – Jesus did Bar Mitzvah

· Luk_2:51 – Voluntary, re-subjection to parents

Jesus and His Mother

Mar_3:20-21 – Mother & brothers incited against Jesus

Mar_3:31-34 – Jesus acts contrary to His mother's wishes

>> TSK!

>> woman from the crowd

Solomon and His Mother

1Ki_2:19 – Solomon honors her

1Ki_2:20-25 – Solomon does not yield his male authority as king to his mother

Grown Sons Had a Choice

Gen_43:1-5 – Judah made conditionsGen_34:30-31, because later: Gen_49:5-7)

Luk_15:11-13 – The younger brother made a choice…

Luk_15:25-32 – The older brother also had a choice…

Extended Obedience to Parents

5/30/16

Esther -- of course this is the case with girls, but she did so even after being married off!

Recobites

Patriarchs: Isaac submitting even unto death!

Ishmael to his mom? (partly)

Jacob to Rebecca

Jesus’ re-subjection

>> Jesus’ re-subjection

Adult "Spanking"?

When Boys Fail to Become Men…

When to spank and when not to spank society?

Correction ≠ Violence

· Adult Spanking/Correction/Punishment is not "destroying men's lives" or “violence” by very definition

Law of Moses – you will chastise him (lit. child)

Ezra & Nehemiah

Proverbs – Slave & Fool punishment

Jesus throwing out money changers

Mat_21:12-17; Mar_11:15-19; Luk_19:45-48; Joh_2:13-16

Limitation: masters give up threatening (and turning the other cheek in general…)

Abortion is Murder

Other dates; 3/10/17-3/13/17

Luk_1:23-44; Luk_1:56-58

Abortion Linked With Idolatry

2Ki_16:3; 2Ki_23:10; 2Ch_33:6; Eze_16:20-21

Others:

2Ki_17:17; Lev_18:21, Lev_20:2; Deu_12:31, Deu_18:10; Psa_106:37; Psa_106:38; Jer_32:35 – Such murder never even came into God’s mind to do; Eze_16:21, Eze_20:26, Eze_20:31

Where do you stand on the issue of abortion?

3/13/17 (recompiled)

It goes without saying that the Bible opposes murder of every kind, even specifically including abortion.

Abortion is murder. Killing a baby inside of the womb is no less murder than killing one outside, and murderers do not go to Heaven, (1Jo 3:15) unless they repent from being a murderer.

The Bible says that killing a baby inside the womb is a murder worthy of death, therefore, it is a murder worthy of death: Exo 21:22-25; Rom 1:32. Many other times as well, the Bible recognizes that a baby in the womb is alive and even capable of spiritual activity: Lk 1:24, 26, 36, 39-44, 56-57

Of course, I would never be the one to cast a stone to enforce such a just death penalty, lest I also be found to have been a murderer in my heart at one time in my past, (and so condemn myself). [These things are verified in these Scriptures: Mat 5:21-22; 1John 3:15; John 8:7; Luk 9:56]. In fact, I would feel privileged to have a part in helping someone recover from participating in such a horrible experience.

>> Num_5

Deu[i.e. mastered by]

>> Sync: DRRR | FamC > Abortion (Deu 22:22)

>> Greek

Num_

Praying against Abortion

Num_

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Abortion

Other date; 11/4/17

Deu_

Deu_12:31

Deu_

Deu_18:9

Deu_

Deu_18:10

>> Sync: WoW | LOG | SPI | SRP (Deu_18:13) | FamC (Deu_18:9-10)

>> TSK (Abortion)

abortion

this

Deu_

>> Sync: FamC | SPI > Spirit, Soul, body

….

do not abort unplanned pregnancies

Juda also let Tamar have his baby

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>>> Exo 1 !!!

Abortion

~2009/10/(11); 1/25/13; 4/1/13

Abraham “sacrificed” his only son

Gen_

>> TSK?

>>Scrip:

Example of ‘Killing all his house’

Korrah

Hamen

Parents enforce death penalty

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10/1/16; 7/11/17

2Ki_

>> TSK!!!

Mat_2:13-23

Jer_19:4, Pro_6:17, Deu_21:1-9

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8/27/15

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>> Jer_7:31

> find other refs to Luke passages

> so-called 'Epistle of Barnabas'?

> Num_

Act_7:19

Eze_16:20

Hos_9:13 – compare MT vs. LXX

Egyptian Mandated Abortions

> exodus / exodos Refs?

Wis_

Wis_14:21-28 Brenton [NETS, p 710] And[פὸ ἀךןיםώםחפןם ὄםןלב]. 22 Moreover this was not enough for them, that they erred in the knowledge of God; but whereas they lived in the great war of ignorance, those so great plagues called they peace. 23 For whilst they slew their children in sacrifices, or used secret ceremonies, or made revellings of strange rites; 24 They kept neither lives nor marriages any longer undefiled: but either one slew another traitorously, or grieved him by adultery. 24 They kept neither lives nor marriages any longer undefiled: but either one slew another traitorously, or grieved him by adultery. 25 So that there reigned in all men without exception blood, manslaughter, theft, and dissimulation, corruption, unfaithfulness, tumults, perjury, 26 Disquieting of good men, forgetfulness of good turns, defiling of souls, changing of kind, disorder in marriages, adultery, and shameless uncleanness. 27 For the worshipping of idols not to be named is the beginning, the cause, and the end, of all evil. 28 For either they are mad when they be merry, or prophesy lies, or live unjustly, or else lightly forswear themselves.

Wis_

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TODO/ Additions

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Mic_1:16 WEB Shave your heads, and cut off your hair for the children of your delight. Enlarge your baldness like the vulture; for they have gone into captivity from you!

Mic_1:16 LB Shave your hair, and make yourself bald for your delicate children; increase your widowhood as an eagle; for your people have gone into captivity from you.

Mic_1:16 ξύρησαι καὶ κεῖραι ἐπὶ τὰ τέκνα τὰ τρυφερά σου, ἐμπλάτυνον τὴν χηρείαν σου ὡς ἀετός, ὅτι ᾐχμαλωτεύθησαν ἀπὸ σοῦ.

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“Friends” vs. Real Friends

Other date; 3/19/18

>> don’t be a companion of fools!!!!

Comp: prodigal son & older bro!

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10/14/17

Deu_

>> comp Hebrews 12

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5/28/17

>>Scrip:

Prepare slaughter for her children

Job: the scorn of children

Mocking Children

2Ki_[Already been there: 2Ki_2:2-3; Comp: idols of Jeroboam & Jehu: 2Ki_10:29 (2Ki_23:4); 2Ki_23:15; 2Ki_23:17, 2Ki_23:19; (Hos_10:5)]Lev_13:40-41][κατέπαιζον][2Sa_17:8; Pro_17:12, Hos_13:8], and they mauled forty-two children [παῖδας]

2Ki_2:23-25 Greek καὶ 24 καὶ 25 καὶ

>> Sync: FamC | jojB

Rejecting Knowledge

Hos_

Hos_4:6 Greek ὡμοιώθη

>> Sync: FamC | jojB

>> [excerpt from other BBS’]

Hos_[זרים (Lexical: זוּר) – turned asside / starnge] children. Now ·the new moon [KJV: a month] will^H2320 [“חדשׁ”] devour them with their fields [flat-ness?].

Hos_5:7 CAB For they have forsaken [ἐγκατέλιπον (same as 2Ch_32:31 with Hezekiah)] the Lord; for strange [ἀλλότρια – lit. other] children [τέκνα] have been born [ἐγεννήθησαν] to them: now [νῦν] shall the cankerworm [ἡ ἐρυσίβη – ABP: blight*] devour [καταφάγεται] them and their heritage [κλήρους].

Hos_5:7

[* “blight” = “]

>> See: LUX | Lov | DHG | FamC (partly)

>> update formatting LUX > DHG

>> Sync: FamC | Lux

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Having “Family Time”

~5/1/17; 5/5/17

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4/11/17

Lev_

>> Sync: FamCo | Sub

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Can Good Parents Have Bad Children?

Cain

Prodigal son

Samual's sons not following in his ways

Jacob

2Ki 2 --

Philip's daughters

Timothy

Psa 127:5 -

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7/31/13

Sir_[Heb: as yourself]*after thy mind ? forsake her not : but *give not thyself over to a *light woman [* μισουμένῃ]

Sir_3:1-16

12/31/12

>> add:

Jeptha had to fulfill his commitment to offer up his daughter because he was her absolute authority and there was no one who could lawfully intervene. But Saul could not fulfill his commitment in killing Jonathan, because Saul was not Jonathan’s absolute authority in a paternal sense, but he could only issue that decree as his king, and because of this, there were people who could and did intervene. No one could lawfully step between the authority of Jeptha and his daughter, but people could step between Saul’s orders and his son’s life.

11/30/12

11/23/12

Wis_

Children need to be in subjection

Lev_19:32 - Rise before gray head

Rom_13:7 - Give all their dues

Gal_4:1-2 > Luk_17:7-10

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Main Contents: Intro | Husbands and Wives | Children

everything emphasized

honor to honor due

> what has God laid upon children ?

> respect old face

maybe not a good example

Future Plans

Eph

With a Daughter

With Sons_

_Commands.html#Children

_Commands.html#ComingofAge

hope this helps

Man clinging to a woman, as a MAN

If punishment were still permitted:

For godliness…

- it would explain a lot of things

Isa_

How the Rape “Need” is Defeated

This is profound:

Practically speaking:

- but you don’t understand!

The BIG problem is:

- Rap is like murder

Story:

I wonder

what

But on the other hand Miriam:

Punishment purifies and removes cancer

abuse darkens with evil hopelessness

> It does make a man a man

DON'T SETTLE FOR WIMPING OUT!

- they laugh it off

examples:

- a pastor: 'lacking male hormones'

> It does show an absolute rule

Submission and Abuse

Eph_

>> Quoted 3 times herein (esp. v 9)

Col_

_3:6 using “lord” [κυριον (kúrion

In 1Ti_

_24:1 and Jer_ba‛al_6:9; 1Pe__5:22-33).

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Pro_

Eph_

>> Quoted 3 times herein (esp. v 9)

1Pe_

Joh_

2Co_

Mal_

I get deeply mad about abuse.

Isa_

Isa_5:25; Isa_9:12; Isa_9:17-21; Isa_10:4; Isa_14:26-27; Isa_23:11;

Isa_

Some Summary

Heb_

“ 6

_3:6 using “lord” [κυριον (kúrion_24:1 and Jer_ba‛al” or “master”:

H1166 בּעל bâ‛al baw-al'

Eph_

>> Quoted 3 times herein (esp. v 9)

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Abuse vs. punishment

Masters, give up thretening

NO: even among the church he says,

but

Yes --

Biblical Beaver

Bible Verses for the Biblical Family

Josiahs Scott

1/9/04; 10/21/07; 3/4/17 (recompiled)

Eph 5:22-33 EMTV

Eph 6:1-4 EMTV Children

Pastor: 1Ti 3:4-5 EMTV one

Deacons: 1Ti 3:11-12 EMTV Likewise

Submission and Abuse

Eph

κυριον (kúrionba‛al

Children

Eventual addition:

Eph

I get deeply mad about abuse.

Isa_5:25; Isa_9:12; Isa_9:17-21; Isa_10:4; Isa_14:26-27; Isa_23:11;

Some Summary

κυριον (kúrionba‛al” or “master”:

H1166 בּעל bâ‛al baw-al'

Eph

Introduction

Husbands and Wives

Is A Husband’s Authority Ever overruled Over His Wife?

Also Consider The Blessing of Celibacy

Labor & Delivery Verses – Verses for Women to be Saved Through Labor

Punishment of Children

Coming of Age – Bar Mitzvah

Quick Summary of Growing Up

Child Play = Things of a Child

Adult "Spanking"?

Abortion is Murder

Where do you stand on the issue of abortion?

TODO/ Additions

“Friends” vs. Real Friends

When God does not Rejoice in the life of Children!

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Having “Family Time”

Can Good Parents Have Bad Children?

Daughters to NOT have a Batmizfa in the Bible

Family Commands – Additional Considerations and Enduring Questions

Coming of Age – 1/29/10 email response to Jim II:

Man clinging to a woman, as a MAN

How the Rape “Need” is Defeated

I wonder

DON'T SETTLE FOR WIMPING OUT!

Submission and Abuse

Abuse vs. punishment

Biblical Beaver

Submission and Abuse

Eventual addition: